Struggle as Teacher

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that the harder I struggle, the better I will be able to survive.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that Life is about surviving and thus struggle is a necessary part of that.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that either one must struggle and then become very good at surviving, or one must be completely dependent on others with no self responsibility which would lead to suffering.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that I have created a false dichotomy within myself which actually does not make sense- that being the belief that in order to alleviate suffering, which is to survive, that I must go through constant suffering and struggle, which means I believe that I am here to simply experience myself struggling for survival until I die, but this is the meaning that I have accepted, not the REAL meaning of Life.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that the meaning of Life is survival, which is limited definition of Life.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that Life is perfection, even within the context of limitation, and the constant expansion beyond limitations.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that children must struggle in order to develop self-responsibility, when it is not struggle that creates self-responsibility per se, but education and self-mastery that does, and that this is best taught through patience and example by the parents.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to place undue importance on the idea of self-reliance, not considering that although self does rely on self, we have limited our definition of self to just our own personal consciousness, which is a system based on energy that has a beginning and an end, and thus we have condemned ourselves through that definition.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that all Life is co-dependent in that even within myself as a physical body, there are trillions of cells that must work together even though they are individuals and that my body does not place value on self-reliance but rather self-responsibility within the context of being part of an interdependent collective.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that the best thing to teach my child, as opposed to valuing self-reliance, is self-responsibility and self-honesty so that one can live as an individual within a collective in a way that always improves the balance in a way that is best for all.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that I have not ever really thought for myself about Life, living, existence, and myself, but only taken information from the world that was based on someone's opinions on how to survive in the context of a competitive based system, not one based on voluntary cooperation amongst equals.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that if I teach my children to survive as the starting point, they will become lost in the world and will never reach their full potential.

I forgive myself that the existence of Feral Children proves that the statement that making Life harder leads to more self-responsibility, because a feral child would not be able to survive or function effectively in human society.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself, as a parent, to not question what a child's full potential really is, within the best definition of Life, rather than the definition of Life given to me by a competitive system that does not value all Life equally.








I commit myself to teach my children about the value of all Life equally.

I commit myself to show other parents that if we educated our children to value all Life equally and create systems to honor that value, that our children will not have to struggle, and that it doesn't mean that they will become weak or overly dependent on others, because part of that education would be teaching our children self-responsibility in the context of being part of a collective of equals, but this would already require each parent to take responsibility for their child to be educated in the best possible way.

Giving My Power Away to Thoughts and Feelings

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to realize that there are some things that I feel I have no choice about, is because of accumulated consequences - and the choice was generally made in the beginning and that created consequences which then reinforced the choice, so what I am facing now is the result of my original choice, which I may not be consciously aware of now.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that when I am challenged to make a choice and I feel emotional and feel like I don't have a choice, it is the emotions that are trying to keep me locked in some original choice, and the same thing goes for thoughts, and yet I can stop participating in a moment, breathe, delete the thoughts and make the decision that is best in that moment.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to create a society where people feel like they have no choice whatsoever, even though they are making choices all the time, but they feel like they aren't choices because emotions and thoughts are given power over and above our individual will and choice.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize the extent to which we as humanity have placed power, Godlike power, into thoughts, feelings, and emotions and use these as justifications for why we and this world cannot change and stop doing things that are not best and do the things that are.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to listen to my thoughts and feelings instead of my common sense, which IS THERE if I listen to it.

I forgive myself that I have not been honest with myself about the degree to which I still allow my thoughts, feelings, and emotions to be the authority, even though I know deep down that I am the one giving them the authority and it is ME who experiences the consequence, eventually, of participating in them and allowing them to make decisions on my behalf.

I commit myself to stop in the moment where the thought comes up to do something that I know is not best, and then the feeling rises to reinforce the thought, and then the flood of thoughts come to convince me to do it - but I stop, I breathe, I bring myself back here, I pause, I forgive myself for falling into the temptation to think and use this as an excuse to wash my hands clean of the decision to do something that is not best, no matter how 'minor' it might seem - I stand up and take responsibility for what I allow in my inner world which becomes my outer world.

How Can I Win Without Another Losing?

The only way to win without losing is to make sure that you do not win at the expense of ANYONE or ANYTHING else. You might wonder what winning would mean in that context, but that would show the extent to which we only think in terms of win and lose. Virtually every approach to Life that is promoted will in some way argue for or imply that someone has to lose for your to win and that Life is all about the individual winning. But what if you are the one on the losing end?

Is it possible for everyone to win when each is playing to win at the expense of another? Is it possible, in a system designed for only some to win and for most to lose, that EVERYONE can learn the rules of the game and then we can all win?

Imagine: is it possible to play monopoly so that all win? In that game the only way would be for everyone to have a constant flow of money so that one never runs out and thus never loses, but then what would be the point of playing that game?

Is LIFE a game?

It actually is not a game. What we have is a game that abuses Life in order to exist and for some to win and most to lose. The game would not exist without Life. The system would not exist without Life. But the Game, the System, is NOT Life. Life is the principle that is given to each equally which allows us to be here in the first place. What we then do with it, individually, forms the collective experience which then begins to influence what individuals even see as possible.

For example, if you are born in Somalia and make less than $1 per day, how do you even see it as possible to become a billionaire investor? Oh sure, there may be ONE PERSON who does it, but is it possible for EVERYONE? Does it come down to personal choice? Is it because most people are lazy? Or is it that we each play a role in accepting less than what is best and all of those little choice accumulate into supporting the system as is?

We have a way to be in this system, and to move yourself out of the 'losing position' you are in right now, which is holding everyone else in a losing position as well, and to make the changes necessary in the system so that the choices presented to ALL are what is best. Imagine if no one had to even be concerned with survival because we had a system that was effectively designed and managed that would support each one with what they need to exist and live in the way that is best? Imagine the creativity that would be unleashed!

Seems difficult to imagine at the moment, because your imagination is shaped and molded by the current system of win/lose to the point that you would even think "if no one is motivated by fear of survival then why would they work?" If that were true, why would Bill Gates or Warren Buffet still be working to this very day? Perhaps, if a human is educated effectively, they will be more interested in creation than mere survival...

I suggest that you consider becoming a TechnoTutor distributor. Here is why:

1. The process of building a business will give you something to daily focus on that will push you outside of your comfort zone and thus you will have a convenient way to challenge yourself and face your current accepted limitations.

2. The system is collapsing and there is going to be a HUGE demand for personalized education, which only TechnoTutor provides FOR REAL, and you don't need any kind of degree or certification to educate yourself with TechnoTutor, because it develops the foundation for reading, speaking, and mathematics in a fundamental way that no other approach does/can. There are only going to be MORE and MORE people who need your support, so your TechnoTutor business will only grow if you apply yourself effectively.

3. You can become financially free, in a currently limited system, but through supporting others to re-educate themselves to be effective in a system that will require everyone to think in terms of win/win, which our current education system only programs us to think in terms of win/lose (and mostly on the lose side).

4. You will have a tool, TechnoTutor, that will support you in the process of changing yourself and re-educating yourself to build your business, because it is likely that you were not educated effectively and thus you now have the vehicle (a TechnoTutor business) along with the tool (TechnoTutor itself) in order to develop yourself and create a lasting impact in the world while placing yourself in a position financially to not only achieve all the desires that you have in terms of wealth, etc, but by becoming successful and winning, you are ENSURING that future generations will have a SUPERIOR education that the system is simply not ever going to provide in its current state, and thus you are preventing the complete and total collapse of civilization as we know it, something that, unless we prepare current and future generations to solve, will be catastrophic and probably mean the end of humanity. Thus, through education, we will SAVE THE WORLD.

Isn't that what everyone wants to do? And yet this doesn't have to be a fantasy. It can be your reality if you so choose.

Now for some Self-Forgiveness:

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that there is nothing I can do as an individual to make a difference in the world.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that as an absolute individual, I can stand up and make my life count.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to be less than equal to my real potential for change.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that I can live the words "be the change you want to see in the world".

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that I can create money, become financially free, and at the same time contribute to make the world best for all.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that education is the key to creating a world that is best for all.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe the brainwashing/propaganda that the world can't be best, that Utopia is impossible, because Utopia would require a dictatorship to enforce and that people can't really change.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that Human Nature is something that is set in stone and that it can't be changed.

I forgive myself that I haven't realized that Human Nature is simply the evolution of choices that have been made and reinforced over a long period of time, and that it can change if new choices are made and reinforced and systems created to support with the environment that reinforces the new choices.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize the extent to which the system reinforces a losing mentality and makes it almost impossible to consider that we can all win without anyone losing, but this would require us to challenge these beliefs within us - thus presenting us with the ultimate test whether we are just robots or real living beings with real freedom of choice.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to never question why if given the choice to believe that it is impossible for everyone to accept and do what is best, versus just fight and compete in a world that is less than best, why I or anyone would choose the latter belief, because it all comes down to what we believe which motivates how we act, what we consider as possible, and that these beliefs were essentially assigned to us from birth by those who went before us - thus the real question is, who do we want to be?

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear becoming rich and successful because I don't want to take more responsibility and thus this is a fire wall that I must walk through.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to complain about the world but not really be willing to stand up and do something about it that would practically make the world better.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not see the opportunity that TechnoTutor represents to re-educate humanity to a superior form of reason and common sense and the opportunity for me to be a part of it and fulfill all the dreams that I have while being a part of the solution to the problems in this world.

I commit myself to investigate TechnoTutor fully, to really get to know it, to really push myself and build a business that provides value to others and supports them in ways they would believe is not possible but will improve every area their life.

I commit myself to show that it is possible to become successful even in the current system in a way that supports what is best, and that this is what TechnoTutor is all about.

Eschewing Emotional Manipulation of Children

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize as a parent that when I tell my child that I will leave them if they do not come with me that this will create a great consequence for the child in terms of imprinting them with fear which will diminish their ability to live effectively.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that as a parent, when I tell my child that they have to come with me or I will leave them, or I walk away and say 'Bye, I'm leaving now' instead of clearly supporting them to understand that it is time to leave and that we will all be going and supporting them to make the decision to come with me without fear, that if I do that, I am only supporting the child to exist in fear, and I am deliberately using the fear of loss to emotionally manipulate them.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that, as a parent, I can prevent a situation where my child will not come with me by communicating with them effectively from the beginning and supporting them to develop an effective vocabulary and ability to communicate, and that I must support myself with this as well, and by doing that I can create an agreement with my child of support where communication is used instead of force and emotional manipulation.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that when I use force or emotional manipulation with my child, this in no way supports them to be able to make effective decisions, it in fact dumbs them down, because if I do not support them to understand reality and understand consequences through common sense and logic and instead imprint them with fear then they will live their life in fear and always trying to avoid the experience of negative emotion, which is not an intelligent way to live.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize, as a parent, the degree and extent of influence that I have, and that every word, every encounter, every experience counts and builds my child's understanding of the world and their understanding of themselves and directly affects their self-esteem.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize the degree to which I affect my child's self-esteem.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to want to believe that my child is just learning everything on their own, so that I can feel like my child is special and therefore that I am special, when in fact I am the primary (along with my spouse) influence on my child and determine virtually everything about who they will become and how they will live.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that if I take emotional manipulation and force off of the table, then I will have to become MORE CREATIVE and support myself to become BETTER in order to be able to communicate with my child from the beginning effectively.

I commit myself to show that the best way to parent, is to take force and emotional manipulation off the table as an option, and rather 'force' myself to develop effective communication, clear, direct, and explain as much as possible, and that through this, my child will develop a keen ability to understand and communicate and reason.

Survival Considerations

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to judge myself and others for having to work in this system to survive.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that having to work to survive is a consequence of what we have accepted and allowed both collectively and individually over a great deal of time and now we cannot simply just stop, because we have to change ourselves on the inside as well as the outside and this takes time.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to feel sorry for myself that I have had to work in this system in order to survive.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that because I or another has to work to survive that this means that one is not standing up, but I realize that it is a process to stand up, and this shows even more the necessity to stand as a group and support each other, because the system has built in defense mechanisms by pitting us against each other in the competition for survival.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to judge the money system which is a way to not take self-responsibility.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not see and realize how I and others hide within the excuse of having to survive, not realizing that we are all going to die at some point, so what is the point of only focusing on survival?

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed a world where people place hope in things like bitcoin, or alternatives to the current money system, as if it will save humanity, when it is not the form of money that is the issue, it is the reality that human beings do not actually care about each other equally and about all life equally, we do not see the value of life itself, we have accepted things as they are, and thus we look for solutions outside of changing our nature as it currently exists.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that, yes, the money system must change, but that this means that those of us who see the point must stand up and change it - if we place any hope on a solution 'just happening' then this is the certain way to ensure that nothing ever changes.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not speak up when those who should know better have accepted less than themselves and have placed hope in solutions that are not relevant to actually changing the system to be best for all.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that the solution of equal money is just the first step within creating the conditions necessary to support all human beings to re-educate themselves to be able to take self responsibility for their mind.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that TechnoTutor along with the Desteni I Process, Heaven's Journey to Life, and EQAFE are the tools and curriculum to re-educate humanity to be able to consider a world that is best for all.

I commit myself to supporting all those who clearly stand with the group to do what is best, to be able to stand up in the system, and to challenge all those who want to hold on to their own beliefs, opinions, and fears.

I commit myself to continue to use the tools mentioned above to change myself so that I can take on more responsibility in the system and be an example of change for others.

I commit myself to promote these tools and to support others to see their value and to see that this is the only way to change oneself and the world for real.

Preventing Dysfunction in Children through Effective Parenting part 2

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that my child will not come to understand things on their own, generally speaking, because they are not born into this world with an ability to speak or think, that is something they learn from their parents and/or those in their environment from a young age.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that it is not my responsibility as a parent to explain and show to my child how reality works.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that because I do not know how reality works that I cannot support my child.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that my education as a child was not effective and did not prepare me to support a child of my own effectively and thus I must rebuild my understanding of reality, and this will take time, at least 7 years, because that is how long it took for me to build an understanding (albeit ineffectively) of reality as child.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that parenting is less about 'how' and more about 'who' meaning that as a parent, I cannot impose something on my child that I am not, because they will learn from who I am more than they will learn from what I say that is in contradiction with who I am and how I behave and what I say in the moments where I am speaking and acting automatically.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that unless I rebuild my vocabulary from the ground up, I will influence my child with bias, incorrect definitions of words, and behavioral patterns that are not best, and thus if I am seeing behavioral patterns in my child that are not best, I must first check to see where I have accepted and allowed such a pattern within and address that before I will be able to effectively direct my child, and if I do not have children yet, then this is something I must do BEFORE I have children in order to prevent consequences that are much more difficult to change AFTER THE FACT.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that when I see behavior in my children that I cannot understand where it is coming from, I now understand that it is either coming from, my influence directly (in other words, something I said or did), from my DNA/memories (something that is within me or past generations that I transferred genetically), from another person in their environment, from an external influence like TV or the internet or an advertisement, or from the environment itself from the perspective of the system we live in creating stress for example in the body of the mother which would create stress/survival patterns in the developing fetus, or from an expectation that is being placed on them to behave within which they do not understand clearly what is expected, why they should act in a certain way, and/or do not have the vocabulary yet to either understand or express themselves in the expected way. In other words, the child comes into this world innocent and is influenced in many different ways to become the child I am now seeing that is behaving in a certain way, and thus it is not the child as who they are that is the issue, it is the influences, and thus I must stop in those moments when I get frustrated at their behavior and really look to see where is the influence that is creating this behavior.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to want to punish and control my child's behavior as a quick fix instead of doing the investigation necessary to really understand where the behavior is coming from.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to want/expect my child to just do what I tell them to rather than take the time and effort to explain things in as much detail as possible so the child understands clearly what I am saying and has as much context as possible to really process what I am asking them to do or not do and why it is best or not best.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself as a parent to believe that I just have to get my child to survive long enough to leave the house and then they will be ok, when in reality it is the first 7 years and the influences and information that is programmed into the child that will determine what happens to them, what position they achieve in the system, and their emotional stability.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that children are programmable, and that just because I don't understand all the influences and how they have created my child as they are, that does not mean that a child is not programmed, it just means I don't see all the details, so it just looks like a child is born and then magically becomes who they are, but that is not how it works, and that is not how it worked for me, I was influenced to become the person I am today.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that I am the product of my parents and my environment.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that if I do not investigate all the points where I act within self interest, then I am going to destroy my child's innocence and cause them to become someone I hate, even though I will make myself feel love towards them, it will always be an experience of swinging back and forth between the 2 extremes.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not consider that my responsibility as a parent is to develop my child to express themselves as Life.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that I have defined Life as survival, and thus I must begin the process of questioning the value of living only to survive.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that there is nothing more than survival in this world other than experiencing temporary happiness, but when I am honest with myself I realize that I spend the vast majority of my life trying to survive and only fleeting moments of experiencing happy feelings, and thus what is the point of that?

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that as a parent, I have the opportunity to influence another being in a way that would make the world a better place for all, and thus I have a great responsibility to change myself to be able to support another person from the very beginning, or to correct the points where I didn't direct things effectively from the beginning, and that this is the real purpose of being a parent, not just to get my child to survive until adulthood.

to be continued...

Did Jesus Say to Fear Our Neighbor?

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that I have nothing to say.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to speak freely in my mind, but be afraid of speaking openly with others.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear speaking up about what is best or the problems that I see in this world, because as a child, I was punished for questioning the status quo, I was belittled, I was hit, I was told to shut up.

I forgive myself as my parents for attempting to suppress the expression of a child questioning what the adults are doing, as I realize that they were just trying to survive and support me to survive, and they did not have the awareness as a parent that I have now, and yet they brought me into this world, and now I am here, and thus it is MY responsibility to speak up and stop all abuse on this planet.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that it is not my place to tell another what they are doing that is not best, and yet I would have no problem telling my child or someone who works for me to change their behavior.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear being rejected by others for speaking the truth, when the acceptance that I currently feel is not real, it is only based on conforming to the standards of a system that is not best, and thus I would rather speak the truth, and support others to see through the illusion of this system within and without than be accepted by those who only want to system to continue as is.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that as soon as I begin speaking up, I will receive criticism, rejection, slander, vitriol, argument, disagreement, backlash, and even threats, because I am now challenging the pursuit of happiness, which is the greatest lie, and very few at the moment want to be honest about it, yet if I say nothing, knowing what I know, then those who may have been willing to reconsider Life on earth may never get the opportunity because if I am not willing to speak common sense and give the solutions then who will?

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that there is no consequence for not doing what is best when I see what to do.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to justify others not standing up and speaking up because I had justified it within myself.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not see/realize my real potential to support others to let go of their bullshit and begin walking the journey to life.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed others opinions of me to DICTATE what I do or don't do.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that I must prove to others in their minds and convince them of what I am doing and my starting point as to support the creation of what is best - when my actions show and will show my intentions, and although others may misinterpret them, that is based on their starting point, thus although I may use others' feedback in order to check reactions and weakness within myself, the only person that I can answer to at the end of the day is myself within my own self honesty.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that simply by speaking and writing, and sharing that, I can influence others to stop accepting less than who they are - as this is the way I was influenced and continued to influence myself.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that if I allow myself to chase/participate in feelings and emotions then I open myself up to be susceptible to manipulation, but in the end I would have only myself to blame, because that is what I accepted and allowed myself to be and to place value on.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that if I fear my neighbor in any way, then I am not living the Jesus pattern/message of love my neighbor as myself and give as I want to receive, because this is not possible when there is fear of another or even fear of myself, and thus within that I realize that a lot of fear is due to the survival system that we are all participating in, and thus I am able to push through my fear of others by speaking up, sharing, challenging others and myself when I see something that is not best, but also placing myself in a position to change the system so that it is not requiring us to only focus on survival, because even if I walk my own process of 'not fearing others' I have to be self honest that others will still find it difficult to not fear if they are constantly under the pressures of survival, and furthermore, if the solution to fear is self-forgiveness, which it is, then if someone is focused on survival all the time, they will not have the time or space to focus on self-forgiveness, and thus I realize that the best purpose to give myself for this life, is to stand up and change the system so that all our basic needs are guaranteed, and that this will create the space and time for the majority of humanity to walk their process, and thus I realize that this life that I have been given is a gift for me to give Life to others and that is only possible by stopping the systems of abuse and creating systems that support Life equally for all, and thus I do not expect anyone else to walk this before me, I walk this until it is done, and through that I realize others will be empowered to walk as well.

I commit myself to releasing myself from all the fears within me towards speaking up and sharing my process and speaking up about what is best, regardless of what others say, using the feedback to support me to remove all weakness as what is not supportive of me expressing myself fully as Life as what is best, removing all ego as that which I have allowed to control me and manipulate myself with through the pursuit of energy and feelings.

I commit myself to stand in the face of everyone, including myself, to challenge all points where I am accepting less than what is best, both within myself and within others, to not fear the reactions within myself or others, to walk through the energy, to breathe through it, to look at where I react to either myself or others, to walk through these points and remove them through writing, self-forgiveness, and corrective action.

Survival Parenting

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that, as a parent, I must rush from one activity to the next.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to use the excuse to rush my child into doing something that I am doing it for their benefit.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that, as a parent, the extent to which I have/am attempted/attempting to create memories for my child that are positive and avoid creating memories that are negative.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize the extent to which I as a parent fear for my child's survival in this world.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize the extent to which I train my child to compete in a competitive world, believing that I am doing what is best.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to judge myself and others for training our children to compete in a competitive world.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to judge the world as competitive, when in fact it is the reflection of what I am accepting and allowing to exist within myself and thus in the world.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that my primary responsibility now, because I am a parent, is to train my child to be the best competitor to survive in a competitive world.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that competing for survival can ever have a winner, when in fact it requires the competitor to harm, abuse, and dumb down the competition, which means that the competitor would have no equals and thus constantly be a slave to controlling others.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that just because I see something reflected in the world or existing as a manifestation that it is not possible to change it.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that change first begins within by deconstructing the pattern existent in me that would allow for the existence/creation/continuance of a pattern without that is not best for all, and then moving from a new starting point to adjust the without so that it is reflective of the corrected pattern within.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that as a parent it is my primary responsibility to change myself within and to thus support my child as one and equal to myself to stand within the world only accepting within what is best and thus only accepting without what is best and to thus support both myself and my child to stand in the world to correct what is not best as this is what is best for myself, my child, and all.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself, as a parent, to take my role as a parent for granted, to take the gift and opportunity of having and supporting the development of a child for granted and not realize the amazing gift and opportunity that exists within being a part of the creation process of a child in this world.

I commit myself to take my role as a parent seriously, and to always do what is best for my child within the context of supporting them to develop inner awareness of what is best for all and to only accept within what is best for all and to thus be able to develop outer awareness of this world to stand within it and be a part of the external change in this world to align the systems to be best for all and to be able to stand and live within a world that is best for all as a natural expression of who one is.

I commit myself to investigate all the ways in which I still allow compromise of my child's development within what is best in the name of survival, convenience, and expediency.

I commit myself to support other parents to question the ways in which we are supporting/raising/training/disciplining our children to produce a child that is less than best.

I commit myself to find and support those who are willing to hear and to apply themselves within this process to remove all the limiting beliefs, change within and be a parent who is able to support a child to develop themselves to be best for all in a world that is still not yet best for all, as this would be the foundation of changing the world to eventually BE best for all.

Fear of Survival as the Basis of Reality

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that all feelings of love and joy are always in contrast with fear.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that I have participated in the idea and feeling of love in order to cover up the basic fact that my and everyone's entire existence is based on fear.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not see the constant, continuous fear in everyone at all times.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not see that everyone, no matter where they are or who they are with is always in fear as a basic point of reality, and that while it is possible to cover up the feeling of fear at times through creating experiences of happiness and fun for example, these are really nothing more than distractions, because no matter what experiences I or anyone create to escape the feeling of fear, fear is still the basis of reality, because no one is able to exist without competing for survival.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize and see that the system we live in is busy collapsing in on itself, like a supergiant star that has used up all of its fuel and is now collapsing on the weight of its own gravity, the system we live in is based on competition, which is always constantly separating and dividing people from each other and this cannot last forever, because in order for even one person to be left at the top, everyone else is left in fear of each other and thus no real cooperation or love is existing, because noone trusts each other at any level - not spouses, not parent and child, not brother and sister, not business partners, no one, because at the end of the day, everyone is a competitor to one' s self in a system based on competition for survival.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to buy in to the game of competition for survival, even directly justifying it at times.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to let things get this bad on the earth in order to wake up and realize and see the consequence of my original decision to compete with myself for energy.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to demonize negativity and to place positivity on a pedestal, when in reality the only thing that exists fundamentally at the moment is negativity, which is why negativity seems to come so easily and positivity seems to require lots of work to create and maintain and only lasts for a fleeting moment.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not really care about my own existence fundamentally, certainly not enough to really question the nature of reality as it is currently existing and what I have accepted and allowed within myself as who I am and what I am willing to participate or allow to even exist without my direct participation, meanwhile just looking out for my own experience, pretending and lying to myself that experience is of any value in itself, especially in spite of things being so dire in reality for so many.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to feel guilty about living in a first world country, and to allow this feeling of guilt to manipulate me into not changing, when it is my responsibility to change so that there is no division between first and second or third world, because this is all one world, and the division lines are not real, and it is only a matter of time before everyone is on the losing end of a system that is competitive by nature.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear losing positivity, love, feeling good, when in fact I don't have these things anyway, and that is because they are not ensured for everyone, and thus if they are not, then I am always in fear of not having them.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to listen to fear, to buy into it, to believe that by listening to it that I can save myself somehow, when the only thing that can save me or anyone is to do what is best and to not stop until the systems that automate the distribution of basic needs, for a start, are giving to all what they need.

I commit myself to stop fear within myself.

I commit myself to use writing and self forgiveness to root out the fear within me, to find the structures that keep me in fear, to stop participating in the positive which creates the fear of loss to further create more positive, and to investigate until I get to the bottom of how I have instilled fear within me as a base motivator and automated point within me that is so far keeping me existing only as a mind seeking energy without regard for Life.

I commit myself to utilize the tools of writing, self-forgiveness, and self-corrective action to eliminate fear within myself, to prove that fear is irrelevant, that fear is only something that holds us back from creating a world that is best for all, and that there is no excuse or reason to listen to fear or to manipulate oneself with fear, and to be a living example to others that stopping fear is not only possible, but that it is best.

The Con of Survival

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that I am going to die at some point and I do not know when that point will be.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to exist within the starting point that my death is not actually inevitable.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to participate in the delusion that there is such a thing as survival.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that the only thing that is 'surviving' currently is a program of control over physical reality to abuse it in order to produce conflict and friction in order to generate energy which continues the existence of the program.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that my continued participation in the fear of dying and the fear of not surviving are indicators that I am not standing up within myself as Life as the Physical in Oneness and Equality and am in fact only existing as a slave to a program through acceptance and allowance that controls my body and this physical reality to only produce energy which in itself is of NO VALUE whatsoever.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that the idea that Life is meaningless is only existing because I am not valuing Life, and thus it is my existence for the continuation and survival of a program of abuse that is meaningless and that I would identify that as Life and not the principle of Oneness and Equality as Life as what is Best for All is an indication that I am not standing up within myself and in this physical reality as Life itself.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to desire survival over Living within the context of always acting and expressing within the context of what is best for all.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that even a temporary existence Lived within the context of what is Best for All is of real value and that an infinite existence lived/experienced within the context of simply surviving, with no real expression or experience of what is best for all is of NO VALUE.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that Life as an eternal principle of what is best for all regardless of context is the only thing of real value and that existence for the mere purpose of existence of survival is of NO VALUE in itself, and thus as a being that currently exist only for survival, I realize that it is my responsibility and duty and in fact privilege to be Here and to walk myself out of the Hell that I have accepted and allowed within and without as a world of abuse where all are condemned to an existence of struggle and competition for survival.

I commit myself to stand within myself and this reality as what is best for all as Life and to assist and support myself to remove, point by point, every fear, belief, thought, feeling, limitation that I have accepted and allowed as an excuse, justification, reason to not stand Here as what is best and to rather focus on survival.

I commit myself to walk within the system of business and to support those who are willing to stand up for what is best equal and one as myself to place ourselves in a position in this world to adjust the system so that it no longer automatically produces conditions that demand for a child to conform to a program of competition for survival so that future generations will have an easier path to walk and so that this world will eventually be a place where one can live, exist, and express in ways that truly honor life and is an environment where always acting in ways that are best for all is normal, natural, and the standard of living.

I commit myself to be a living example to show that even though conditions are not ideal for an individual to do what is best, that by standing within the principle of what is best, and walking as a group, we can do what is best in the context of how things currently are, so that we can adjust things to eventually produce ONLY what is best, and that the context of being in an existence where Life is NOT given unconditionally is no excuse to not stand up and put my LIFE on the line, because that is what Life would do if it existed here. Life would not be afraid to GIVE LIFE, as that is the nature of Life - to GIVE LIFE UNCONDITIONALLY regardless of context and to expand beyond all perceived limitation and become equal to and one with that which would create an optimal condition for the expression of Life within each one that is Here.

I, Parent

I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to realize that all education and parenting approaches that have existed up to now have all been from the starting point of reinforcing the system as it is, one of inequality, where a world that is divided into a few at the top having more than they need and with many at the bottom have less than what they need.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to define parenting according to the system's definition which is to train my child to survive in the system, and to in no way prepare my child to take full self responsibility as a co creator of this world and of their life.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself, as a parent, to use the justification that the world is the way it is and therefore I have to go along with the way the system presents education and parenting, otherwise my child will not survive.

I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to realize that if we can survive on earth with a system of inequality, then we can do MORE THAN SURVIVE in a system of equality where all Life is respected, valued, and give to as equal.

I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself, as a parent, to realize that I my purpose as a parent is to prepare my child to take responsibility for themselves as a creator and to impart to them as a living example and through the education I provide in terms of their ability to read, write, communicate, and be able to use mathematics to understand and solve problems, to take responsibility for what is Here as what we have created as Human Beings on the Earth.

I forgive myself that I have allowed myself to use the excuse of my and my family's survival as an excuse to not take responsibility for what I have created as my internal world and as the external world system.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to use the existence of others in this world who are not in a position to do anything about their lives or to take any level of self responsibility for the world system due to their not even being able to survive effectively as an excuse or justification for my not taking responsibility for myself and this world system, arguing that since they cannot change, what is the point. Within this I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to realize that, were I to stand up and support others to stand up, who are not in a position of extreme survival conditions, we could adjust the system to alleviate the survival pressures that so many face in this world that are preventing them from having the time and space to walk the process of taking self responsibility for their mind's and this world.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to see my role as a parent as a burden, that children are something that I must support just enough to survive to the age of 18 so that they can then be responsible for their own survival, when in fact my primary responsibility as a parent is to support my child/children to be know who they are as a physical being, to understand how their body and mind works, to learn to use the mind for its intended purpose as a map of physical reality, and to develop an effective ability to reason and use common sense in a way that is best for all, and within this I forgive myself that I haven't allowed myself to realize that if all parents had this starting point, the world would be able to transform into something that we would call Heaven on Earth.

I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to realize that the reason Jesus said that one must become like a child to enter Heaven, was to show that it is what we accept and allow as 'adults' as simply existing as a system of survival that must be questioned and removed from within us, because Heaven is a state where survival is irrelevant, because one is truly and fully alive and living as what is best for all, and I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that such a state cannot exist on Earth, when in fact it is my responsibility as a parent to create such a state, both through myself and my children.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to on the one hand say and believe that children are a blessing, and on the other hand to treat and act as if children are a curse, not realizing that it has nothing to do with the child, it has to do with the way the world, which I have accepted and allowed and directly/indirectly created as an adult that creates the conditions where it is extremely difficult/impossible to support a child to develop in this world without losing their innocence, and yet using this as an excuse to not do what is best would be to abdicate my own responsibility towards the problem and thus BE THE PROBLEM.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself realize that the children now will be my ancestors in a future life, if I have one, and that I am therefore preparing/raising/developing those who will some day raise me as a child and that if I want to receive the best possible support as a child, which I would have liked in this life, I must give as I want to receive and prepare the children now to be better prepared to adjust the systems in this world, and within themselves, so that the conditions of equality that are best for all can eventually manifest on this planet.

I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to realize that my child learns all of their basic patterns of existence from me as the parent based on Who I Am in their presence, and that while I copied these patterns from my parent, if I blame my parents or the system that I am within, then I lose all ability to support my child effectively, and that the only solution to this problem is to take responsibility for who I have become within myself and in this world and to apply self forgiveness and correct myself into a form that is best for all, so that my child may copy these patterns or at the very least see my example of self change so that they may change themselves if they are beyond the stage where my patterns imprint into them physically and so I am able to support my child either directly or indirectly simply by changing ME.

I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to realize that I cannot shape my child into something that I am not.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed the use of the statement "the children are the future" as a way to make myself feel better for not having been the solution in this world and to instead expect the children to be the solution, not realizing that the adults that came before me had the same expectations, yet did not prepare me to take full responsibility for myself and this world as a reflection of myself and thus the problem continued and got worse where now I have even less hope for the children to come.

I forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to realize that the madness that is existent in the world, such as racism, blame, victimization, abuse, unequal distribution of resources, all stems from children not being prepared by their parents to be effective, equal co-creators of reality, and that if I don't stand up, there is no reason to expect that anyone else will either.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself place the responsibility of instilling reason and common sense in my child onto a system that clearly is unreasonable and defies common sense because it is the same system that educated me and I have proven myself to be unreasonable and without common sense in the context of being able to see and do what is best for all, and yet I subject my child to the same system.

I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to see the irrationality of placing my child into an education system to learn things that I do not feel qualified to teach even though I went through the same system, and that the evidence that I do not remember anything I was apparently taught should be a red flag that clearly the system is not teaching effectively, and yet because I have accepted that my life is merely about survival I will place my children in an ineffective system so that I may go to work and thus the system continues.

I commit myself to question every thought, feeling, emotion, and belief I have as a parent that I am here to only teach my child to survive, and to show in all ways that I can support my child to realize who they really are as a creator of their life and this world and to show to other parents that there is a best way to parent, and that best way is not based on belief but based on common sense and working with what is here physically and can in fact be known and understood.

I commit myself to stand as an example of parenting that is best for all and to show other parents that it is possible to both support a child to exist in this world while also supporting them to develop into an expression that understands Life and how to live in a world where all Life is honored equally, and to within that show that a parent's responsibility is the greatest that there is, to actually support the birth of Real Life on this planet.

I commit myself to stand as a parent who is willing to stand in the face of criticism from the system and from other parents who would become defensive, as a system would, when their methods are questioned, and to stand within what is best to show that no amount of criticism or fear can move me because I know what is best and I know why I am here as a parent.

I commit myself to stand as a parent who question all abuse of children in every way and show how all aspects of the system we live in through the current accepted ways of education and parenting are in fact abuse of the child and destruction of the child's innocence and are in fact a child sacrifice to the economic system that places no value on life itself but only the continued existence of the system.

Children are Innocent - so Why are Adults so F***ed Up?

When a child is born and through the early stages of childhood, they remain in a state of innocence insofar as they are in a state of openness and natural ability to learn and absorb from their environment. But, from the time they are born and placed into an environment they begin, in essence, downloading the patterns of those around them and the structure of the environment instinctually. If you are a high-strung, stressed out parent, this will imprint onto your child. They will become like you.

If you are mean to your child, this will shape the way they see the world, the way they see themselves, and the way they see you.

If you are patient, kind, supportive, and allow them to learn from mistakes in an environment of unconditional love, this will shape their basic nature and character.

If you give them what they need in terms of vocabulary and exposure to ideas and opportunities to challenge themselves and be creative, they will develop into an amazing human being.

But how does one do this in a world that demands the parent fight for their own survival and that of their children?

So far, parents succumb to the pressures of the system and instead of supporting their child to develop into their full potential as a benevolent creator, they mold them into a nasty consumer who's only real purpose is to keep the system as it is.

As a parent, if you truly care, you must become specific. You must enhance your ability to process information and develop a self-awareness that is so keen, that no thought, feeling, or emotion goes unnoticed with you or with another person and thus you are able to direct yourself and support others to direct themselves within the context of what is best for everyone.

If everyone did that, the environment that children grow up in would be supportive of their natural development into a fundamentally good person.

But of course, people will have all kinds of excuses, and yet none of those excuses are valid because they only lead to what is less than best.

Consider when a child plays with a set of blocks. You build the blocks up and the child knocks them down. Do you get angry? Do you attempt to control the child? Do you tell them, "Fine! You build them yourself then!"

The basic, inherent spitefulness of parents towards their children is evident to one who has an effective ability to process information. Parents do not realize it, perhaps, but it is YOU, who destroy the innocence of your child. You have no one else to blame. You are the one putting your child in front of a TV program that is DESIGNED to advertise to them by programming them at a symbolic level to respond to certain stimuli. It is YOU who allow yourself to be manipulated by your own feelings and lie to your child about the existence of Santa Claus and all kinds of other things which you know not to be true or at the very least have NO REAL EVIDENCE for. You allow your own self-deception to determine what your child learns.

If YOU DO NOT CHANGE, the WORLD WILL NEVER CHANGE.

The children are NOT the future. YOU ARE.

Will AI Strip Us of Freedom in the Name of Survival?

I got the new iPhone X a few months ago, and I've noticed a very interesting thing: when I am with a client, my phone will buzz sometimes an hour or 45 minutes in advance an my next appointment, and let me know about driving time based on current traffic conditions. Even if I check it, sometimes it will continue buzzing every few minutes with updates. I never asked it to do this and it didn't do it when I first got the phone. The really 'spooky' part is that for many of my appointments, I don't have the address programmed in, either to the contact of the person I'm meeting or in the location section of the appointment on my calendar app. This would imply that my phone is learning from past experience that when that person's name is on my calendar at the same time each week that I am likely going to the same location. In other words, it has learned where that particular client lives or works based on my having visited them in the past. My previous phone's iOS would give me similar predictions but it wouldn't let me know well in advance or constantly remind me and give updates.

This got me thinking about where the AI of these phones and devices is headed. Having the phone update me well in advance felt almost like the phone was trying to tell me what to do. Like a parent coming down stairs every five minutes while the kids are watching TV to remind them that then need to get dressed if they are to leave on time to get to school. Now, of course, there is no reason, per se, to feel like the phone is trying to 'control' in a negative sense, as that is just an emotional reaction. One could just as easily see the benefit of having the technology consider things for you so that you are freed up to focus on the important things like a particular conversation you are having with a client or a creative task that you are engaged in.

But then I was checking my email this morning and I noticed something that either hasn't happened before or that I just never picked up on previously. There was an email thread with a colleague that had gone back and forth between us a few times and the last email was from me to them and contained a rhetorical question that was meant as a joke. Thus, there was no response from the other person and it had been several days since I had sent the reply. Of course, I wasn't expecting a reply, but Gmail had placed a note on the email indicating that it had been 4 days with no response and asking whether I would like to follow up (presumably to ask my question again or remind the person that I was awaiting a response.) I had to actively dismiss the suggestion from Gmail so that it was no longer sitting there in orange text demanding my attention each time I checked my email.

Imagine a world where parents buy a robot to take care of their children and the robot decides what TV shows the child will watch, what they learn, what they eat, and what they do for fun? What if it does so based on the inventory of the partner companies associated with the maker of the robot? What if the 'free version' gets to advertise whatever it wants, whenever it wants to the child? Seems unlikely? I mean, parents already put their kids in front of TV's for hours on end to be advertised to. And now, with Amazon's Alexa people are beginning to feel very comfortable not having to lift a finger to do menial things, and sadly 'child care' is seen as one the menial things, along with education, that must just get done during the day. There is very little self-responsibility within parenting and education as they currently exist.

(note: the Robo Nanny was just an idea that I had as something that was likely, but a quick google search revealed that it's already here: The AvatarMInd iPal Robot for Children )

Is our technology trying to help us become more responsible or is it trying to tell us what to do?

Of course it would be silly to assign intent to our technology, but, then, it is being programmed by other human beings, who do have intentions, whether we know them or not.

Now, in order to avoid coming across as paranoid (which I am not), let me place more context here.

As human beings, we have abdicated a great deal of self-responsibility for our own thoughts, feelings, and emotions. We have accepted a system that manages all of the things that we require to survive in this world. Should our lack of responsibility for our own internal worlds interfere with the effective management of that system, what should the system do?

Is the system designed to optimize our freedom or optimize survival?

I would suggest, that if you look at the world, the system's design is to ensure survival, as we have to constantly 'fight' for freedom in many ways. But, is it even OUR survival that the system is designed to ensure? No, it is the survival of the SYSTEM that it is programmed to preserve. You can see this even within your own mind. Your mind is not programmed with your own actual best interest as its primary guiding principle. It is programmed to guide you to survive, but only if that survival ensures the survival of the greater system that we live in. I mean, where does your mind come from? Surely not from YOU, as you didn't have one when you were born. It comes FROM THE SYSTEM, as a function of your environment, the people around you when you are little, and your education. Yes, your genetics plays a large role, but that is simply the accumulated information from generations before, which is therefore shaped through iterations of experience lived by your ancestors. That information is then stored in your DNA and given to you.

Perhaps the most important part of that which is given to you is the rate at which you learn. Some experts argue that intelligence is genetic, but they struggle to find the specific genes that control intelligence. I would suggest that it is not your 'intelligence' per se that is genetic, but rather your rate of learning and ability to remember and recall that is genetic. Because those are structural things. Those are programmable things. If you study neural networks you will find that it is quite simple, in principle, to adjust the learning rate of a neural net to optimize the system's ability to learn from experience.

I would suggest that this is generally what gives people a competitive advantage in the system over others. The ability to learn quickly. Humans are born with a Natural Learning Ability; that is, they are not born with a set culture or way of thinking or believing, but they are able to learn from those around them and from the systems that are present in their environment. They adapt to circumstances. Its kind of like a real-time evolution process. If you take a Chinese-born baby and transplant them the moment they are born into American culture with American parents, they will not adopt Chinese culture, but American culture. That is so obvious. Yet, they will have certain abilities that will give them an advantage over another child born into American culture that will allow them to compete more or less effectively in the education and economic systems. That is more of a problem, though, of the rigidity of our system in valuing it's own survival over that of supporting all life equally. Because, we, as humans, have not taken full responsibility for the system that WE PARTICIPATE IN and GIVE LIFE TO, it has not been engineered to support all Life equally. Instead it does whatever ensures its own survival.

So, will we as humans step up and take self-responsibility for what we are accepting and allowing as a system that governs and manages the resources on this planet? A system that educates our young? A system that decides what entertainment is and is not? A system that determines for you, through education and environment, what your purpose will be? A system that optimizes its own survival at the expense of YOUR INDIVIDUAL FREEDOM and SOVEREIGNTY?

Do we have to choose between survival and freedom? Yes and no.

The survival of a system where we take very little to no self-responsibility for WHO WE ARE and what is acceptable is incompatible with a system of optimal individual freedom and creativity.

If we were to stand up and step up into our true nature, which is that of an adaptable creator, and take self-responsibility, we can guide the system to take care of OUR SURVIVAL and support ALL LIFE equally. The potential to create a heaven on earth is ALREADY HERE, but the BIGGEST MISSING PIECE has still not been fully realized. WE EACH have to step into FULL SELF-RESPONSIBILITY.

Otherwise, our devices, our technology, and the system will encroach on our individual freedom little by little. First our devices will remind us gently that we are late for an appointment. Then later they will simply shut down your vehicle if you decide you'd rather not go to work today but head back home and spend time enjoying life with your kids that day. Does the system care what you 'enjoy'?

No.

But, do YOU care whether all Life is supported to be its best expression?

No, you don't.

And of those two sad, basic facts of reality at the moment, the only one that really matters is WHAT YOU CARE ABOUT.

We have the solution right in our hands, and it starts with education. We have the technology to optimize the ability for each individual to learn and obtain an equally effective level of education, so that survival of the fittest is no longer the driving force behind our evolution as a species. Instead we can drive evolution based on the principle of 'creation of what is best'. Because only with that starting point can we have the best possible world and thus the best possible life experience.

And deep down, isn't that we are all really want anyway?

Overnight Success

At the end of the day, one's ability to learn new information and apply it will determine their success. There are some examples of people who seemingly went from one station in life to a totally different one. Some of that is pre-programmed into the system so that people will hope that success will someday magically happen to them. The rest were able to learn what was necessary to make money. Survival instinct is a form of pre-programming which if someone gets into a survival mode they can overcome certain fears which most would not walk through. Overcoming fear is necessary to making money because money is made through selling. Consider though that it is EXTREMELY RARE that anyone would listen to a tape and then suddenly start cashing checks in any sustainable way. If that were to happen it is likely that they already had the vocabulary to be successful in their field and there was some mental block that the tape helped them overcome. But again, this would be extremely rare.

If you listen to, for example, Brett Daimler in the GIN level 1 material, he listened to tapes for YEARS before anything happened. And what happened is that he talked to enough people that he found someone who had the skill to really build his Amway downline.

If you can learn the skills of communication and have a clear goal of what you want, then you can be wealthy in this system. But you cannot base it on hope of something happening overnight. That type of thinking is what keeps that vast majority of people stuck.

Education secrets THEY don't want YOU to know about

Let me ask you a question. Do you think our education systems in this world support most people to fulfill their true potential?

If you answered yes, then you might be an elitist. If you answered no, then you might actually have some common sense left.

Why do we say that?

In a certain sense, philosophy runs the world. You might be thinking, "but most people don't study philosophy so how could that be true?" Because it is not people's knowledge of the history or various subjects of philosophy that runs the world, it is the beliefs, ideas, and relationships between yourself and others that determine how our world functions at a physical level. Of course there are physical relationships that exist in this world, but those are by and large determined through agreement. Look at the economy for example. Most people in this world don't make enough to survive while a few have more wealth than is necessary to live even the most luxurious life possible. And yet our economic system is not 'natural.' It is a function of the relationships between money and business and law that we have agreed to, or at least acceded to, at some level. And yet most of us have no real idea of how the economy actually functions, how business functions, how law functions, how government functions, etc. Still, we go along with these things due to basic assumptions that generally things cannot be different. This is due to the way knowledge and information is structured within us. Most of us are not even aware of most of the information within us and the relationships formed between the various points of information (which are really just words). "You don't know what you don't know," as the saying goes. 

So in this way, our behaviors and the systems which to a large degree determine the range of choices of behaviors that are possible for us, depending mostly on one's access to financial resources, are determined by the relationships between words within us. These relationships of words within us form a structure of knowledge which we can call, for lack of a better word, one's philosophy of life.

If you are not sure what your own personal philosophy is you can at least see the effects of it by asking yourself questions like: should everyone have their basic survival needs taken care of from birth or should everyone have to compete with each other to survive?

or: do you believe everyone has the capacity to be successful, happy, and effective in their life?

If you study the elitist philosophers (a philosopher is essentially someone who writes down their thought processes) and scientists (some who writes down their observations) they believe that people are born knowing what they know and their abilities and cognitive capacities are set in stone from birth. They believe that learning is not real, that education has no purpose, and that the masses must be conditioned and controlled to behave in a way that does not cause conflict within society. Don't believe me? Read Plato's "The Republic". Or read Descartes' writings. Or read John Dewey's "Democracy and Education". Hobbes' "Leviathan" is essentially an instruction manual for the king to run a deep state operation where the ire of the people never turns back on the real seat of power. Perhaps you see that playing out in US politics at the moment. Perhaps not. That depends a lot on your own personal philosophy (which you don't choose, by the way, because it is a result of your education, unless of course you have taken complete personal responsibility for your own education which is highly doubtful.)

To be clear, there are really two types of elite in this world. There are the value creators and the value destroyers. The value destroyers are also called the "parasitical elite". They are parasites living off of the value production of others and have no interest in raising others up, because they want complete and total control. They don't care about anything except for protecting their own position and status in life. They will work with others only to the degree that they believe or perceive that it will protect their status. This is why you see the creation of secret societies. They are "safe spaces" for the elite.

The beneficial elite are usually those who are effective in the system and thus generally make a lot of money or have a lot of influence but are interested in what is best for everyone. And you see varying degrees of this depending on the person, because the limits of their personal philosophy will determine the limit of what they see and understand as "best for everyone" but generally they recognize that the more they uplift others they more they uplift themselves. Jesus was one of these types and this is what he was trying to tell the world. Not that stuff about accepting you needing a savior (i.e. the elite.) That is the drivel that is promoted by the parasitical elite who just want to control you. Jesus was trying to tell everyone, at a point where people were starting to awaken to the fact that the voices in their head were not gods and demons but actually coming from themselves. Jesus was trying to say, "Hi, fellow sentient beings. If you want to have a better world then you have to use your sentience in a benevolent manner." You know, the whole "treat your neighbor as yourself" thing. But the church after a while, thanks to probably "Saint" Augustine, set the stage for sentient beings to be controlled even more by a little thing called "guilt" which is basically using one's own thoughts as a weapon against oneself and creating a little "policeman in the head".

So around the turn of the 19th century into the beginning of the 20th century with the accumulating body of knowledge (remember: observations), the elite began to understand how the human works at a physiological level. By the 1970's they knew the secrets to success (see: Napoleon Hill and Johnson O'Connor) they knew what people needed to be happy (see: Abraham Maslow), the knew how to condition people to respond predictably to stimuli (see: BF Skinner) and they knew how learning actually takes place in the brain (see: the work of Terje Lomo in the 1960's  in the field of neuroscience). They realized that actually anyone could change given the right conditions and that this could be used to a person's benefit or to their detriment. It is not nature VERSUS nurture. It's the balance between the two and your starting point that matters. A world that is best could be achieved by creating a supportive environment conducive to each person engaging and developing their inherent potential to its fullest expression. Or this process could be deliberately subverted and one's basic needs could be used as weapons against them to force them into submission.

So the elite now had a choice: they could share the secrets of what they had actually always benefited from without fully understanding it with the rest of the world or they could keep the secrets to themselves. But they also faced a dilemma. They could share these secrets and potentially face the wrath of all those who have been kept down or they could try and continue to dumb everyone down and hope the savages don't revolt.

The problem with this dichotomy is actually a fundamental problem of the parasitical elitist philosophy. See, what drives the negative elitist mindset is FEAR, which is the other side of DESIRE. The elite DESIRE control because they FEAR for their own survival. And yet by focusing on that, they create the conditions that threaten EVERYONE'S survival. We have created a competition-based system where we must all fight for survival. And before you give me that BS argument from primitivism that "well animals fight for survival so its just natural" you can just stop reading right now because there is probably no hope for you. YOU ARE NOT JUST AN ANIMAL. Yes you have an "animal body" but you also have a MIND capable of REASONING. You can change your own nature if you just know how it operates and what the physical mechanisms are. 

Buckminster Fuller talked about the "trim tabs" which are the little tiny rudder attached the much larger main rudder on a ship. Turning the main rudder is hard, but turning the trim tab is easy. And by turning the trim tab, it makes it easier to turn the main rudder. The "main rudder" in terms of changing your human nature is will power and the intellect. The trim tab, though, is that which is so simple that by changing that, your will power and intellect take on dimensions of effectiveness that you would never imagine possible in your current state of deliberately dumbed down reasoning ability. And this is what is being kept hidden from you and actually being used without your awareness to keep it hidden. Hidden in plain sight, so to speak.

Ok, back to the point. The elite have a problem because they don't want to give everyone access to the secrets they know because they are afraid their position and status will be threatened. But the problem is that when you keep someone dumb and at a low vocabulary then they have a reduced capacity to express themselves and thus are more likely to turn to violence to get what they need (in order to move up the ladder of Maslow's hierarchy of needs.) 

So by dumbing people down in order to control them, you create a monster that will most likely turn on you. Read Hegel and Marx. Every revolution will always lead to another one and it will usually be violent. Currently the parasitical elite are planning the revolution to end all revolutions which, trust me, will not be good for any of us. Look up "Year Zero". 

But what if we could, instead have a peaceful revolution to end all revolutions? One that created the conditions to support each person to be their very best! Here is what the elite miss: that if everyone had a truly effective reasoning ability (which clearly the parasitical elite lack), then people would realize what Jesus was saying, that the best way to live is by giving your neighbor as you would give to yourself and loving them as you would like to be loved in return. That is the philosophy of a truly enlightened and rational being!

"Forgive them for they know not what they do." Fortunately there are those of us from many different walks of life and many different positions at elite levels of society that understand this and are working diligently to create the necessary conditions to support REAL LIFE on earth. But the more people who understand what we are doing, the faster and more peacefully we can do this. Understand, if you are reading this: YOU ARE ELITE. You have been brainwashed to believe that you are just average and middle of the road. But if you go visit so-called "third world" countries you will see REAL POVERTY. If you have electricity, running water, enough to eat and internet access, you are ELITE ENOUGH to make a real difference. 

Don't give in to the system and believe this is all there is. But don't fall into the elitist trap of thinking Utopia can be forced on to the world. No Utopia is possible where force exists. It must be NATURAL. And for a better world to come about, we must go to the root of that which creates the world which is HUMAN NATURE, which, I promise, CAN BE CHANGED. There are many of us currently busy proving it. If you want to be one of those, we can show you the way, but we cannot do the work for you. There are tools which will aid you in your process, but they will always point you back to yourself. No guru will be of help because they just want followers. You must seek out those who recognize their EQUALITY with YOU. 

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