The First 7 Years Are Critical

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that virtually everything about me, my personality, my character, my habits, my beliefs, my thought processes, was set by the time I was 7 years old.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that just because a child cannot speak, doesn't mean they have not learned something from their environment.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that just because I don't remember learning every single word and habit from my parents, primarily, that it means that they are not the source of most of who I am currently.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that if I truly want to change, then I must start where the real foundation of who I am was built, which was in my first 7 years of life.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that I can investigate my entire foundation for my life and who I am simply by remediating my vocabulary from the ground up.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that I can support my children to develop a very effective character to be able to stand in this world and be someone who not only is able to make a difference but who is of value to every person they meet.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that if I am not specific in how I support my children, by supporting them with an effective vocabulary, math and reading ability from the very beginning then they will develop dysfunctions.

I commit myself to show that anyone can support their child to develop effective skills for being an adult in this world even without any formal education, but the parent must also support themselves using TechnoTutor alongside their child.

I am Responsible for what happens within Me

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to dwell in emotional turmoil.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to feel ashamed for allowing emotional turmoil within myself.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to have automated systems within me which activate and create thought patterns and feelings according to certain words and events that are associated with those thoughts and feelings symbolically.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to blame another person for how I feel within me.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to blame outside circumstances for how I feel within me.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that I am weak and unable to direct and determine what goes on within me.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that my first point of self responsibility is within me.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to think about how far I have to go in order to stop the emotional turmoil within me, when it is irrelevant and I really don't know in any case - thinking about it is only an excuse to not breathe and stop the thinking and feeling patterns within me.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that when I allow a thought or feeling within me and then blame it on another person and then speak and act within that starting point, even if I am not being open about it, I am in fact terrorizing others as well as myself.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that what I think and feel about another person is something that I am making up, because I do not really know and understand all the details of what goes on within them - all I see is what I think and feel within, which in self honesty I have created/accepted/allowed/defined according to the other person.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not want to face the reality that I have been projecting my own inner responsibility for what I think and feel onto others and have been blaming them for what I have accepted and allowed within me.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that if I really care about myself and others equally, then I would take full responsibility for what I allow within me, and I would not allow myself to think about others in my secret mind and blame them for a feeling that comes up within me - because even if the other person changes their behavior, that does not change the fact that there is a system within me which is producing feelings and thoughts automatically - and I have accepted this and thus it is my responsibility to stop it, regardless of what the other person does, because, again, I do not really know who the other person is, what their starting point is, it doesn't really matter, because my thoughts and feelings are coming from within me, not from the other person.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not remember the origin of my thoughts and feelings and to then believe that they are coming from others and things outside of me, when those things are only the stimulus that brings the thoughts up, not the origin - thus I am grateful for these points being in my life to show me what I have accepted and allowed without question.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to blame my partner when I feel angry.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to blame my partner when I feel fearful.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to blame the money system and my circumstances when I feel depressed.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that it is not possible to direct my feelings and thoughts in a world that is designed to stimulate us to participate in cycles of emotion, thinking, and feeling - which is the ultimate statement of a slave, because a slave is not in control and direction of themselves, they are completely at the mercy of outside forces, but now I understand that this is a choice because I can forgive myself and direct myself within my inner awareness to no longer accept myself to participate in thinking about another and feeling and then blaming another for the feeling.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not appreciate, realize, and take full advantage of the gift I have been given of being here, being alive, being in reality, and able to change myself within - to feel lost and angry and sad and hurt by reality, when actually I am here for a moment to be able to change myself and let go of all the excuses and blame as to why I cannot exist in a way that is best for me and for all.

I commit myself to stand up and be aware in the moment when a thought/feeling comes up about another person, an event, or myself and see/realize that this is an opportunity to just breathe, be here, let go of the thought/feeling and know that it is nothing more than a system attempting to tempt me into submission - I am not a slave, that is not who I am - I commit myself to support myself to stand up and direct myself within this process and stop the cycle of abuse that I have been putting myself through as allowing thinking and feeling and then blaming others, which is a statement of disempowerment, because I AM RESPONSIBLE, and thus I commit myself to walk through my mind, to forgive myself in those moments when the thoughts and feelings come, and to breathe and to be here.

Patterns of Frustration

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to be disappointed, to feel disappointment, to feel sadness, and frustration when my child goes into an emotional pattern.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to judge my child for going into an emotional pattern of, for example, frustration, to which I then react with frustration, showing that it is I who have taught the child the pattern in the first place, and thus I am the one who is responsible.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to judge myself for being frustrated that I have taught my child frustration.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize what frustration really is.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that physical frustration is the impeding of progress or completion of something, and thus in itself, is not an emotion, and yet I have accepted and allowed myself to react emotionally when something I am doing is impeded from moving forward or when I am stopped from continuing something or completing something I am focused on.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to feel despondent about my child getting emotionally frustrated when they are impeded within something, not realizing that I am thus placing the responsibility to support them outside of myself, hence the despondence, and thus if I can understand my own frustration experience, then I can support my child to understand theirs.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that it is normal to FEEL frustrated when something doesn't go the way that I want it to.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that I feel frustrated when I don't understand why something is impeding me.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that I feel frustrated when I have created an internal energy towards something, and thus the feeling of being frustrated is really the experience of energy within myself towards something being impeded, and thus it is really the experience of either not having the energy continue within me or not getting the energy experience that I was expecting that is causing the FEELING of frustration.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to go into a feeling of depression and/or anger in moments where I do not get something that I was expecting, and thus it is the expectation that is the issue, from the perspective of building up an energetic experience towards the point.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that creating energetic expectations and participating in energy puts me at a disadvantage in a physical reality where I do not control all the variables, and never will, because I am in a reality of collective agreement, not one where I control everything, and thus I must come to terms with this, and realize that the key for me is to stop participating in energy within myself in my mind and rather be here physically looking at what is really going on and seeing what can be worked within in that context.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to want to control how my child plays with toys which is really just me wanting to create an energetic experience within myself and to transfer that to my child and within that create another layer of energy within reflecting on what I have created as a copy of me in my child.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize the extend to which I am projecting my experience onto my child and creating conflict within that between my child and me.

I commit myself to develop the awareness that my child is a reflection of me and to in those moments where I feel frustrated towards my child to realize, to see, that the child is me, and to stop and to breathe, and to let go of the energy - to support me in that moment, firstly, and thus to prepare myself to be able to support my child as well to let go in those moments - realizing that I cannot demand that my child do something I am not willing to do.

Eschewing Emotional Manipulation of Children

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize as a parent that when I tell my child that I will leave them if they do not come with me that this will create a great consequence for the child in terms of imprinting them with fear which will diminish their ability to live effectively.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that as a parent, when I tell my child that they have to come with me or I will leave them, or I walk away and say 'Bye, I'm leaving now' instead of clearly supporting them to understand that it is time to leave and that we will all be going and supporting them to make the decision to come with me without fear, that if I do that, I am only supporting the child to exist in fear, and I am deliberately using the fear of loss to emotionally manipulate them.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that, as a parent, I can prevent a situation where my child will not come with me by communicating with them effectively from the beginning and supporting them to develop an effective vocabulary and ability to communicate, and that I must support myself with this as well, and by doing that I can create an agreement with my child of support where communication is used instead of force and emotional manipulation.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that when I use force or emotional manipulation with my child, this in no way supports them to be able to make effective decisions, it in fact dumbs them down, because if I do not support them to understand reality and understand consequences through common sense and logic and instead imprint them with fear then they will live their life in fear and always trying to avoid the experience of negative emotion, which is not an intelligent way to live.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize, as a parent, the degree and extent of influence that I have, and that every word, every encounter, every experience counts and builds my child's understanding of the world and their understanding of themselves and directly affects their self-esteem.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize the degree to which I affect my child's self-esteem.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to want to believe that my child is just learning everything on their own, so that I can feel like my child is special and therefore that I am special, when in fact I am the primary (along with my spouse) influence on my child and determine virtually everything about who they will become and how they will live.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that if I take emotional manipulation and force off of the table, then I will have to become MORE CREATIVE and support myself to become BETTER in order to be able to communicate with my child from the beginning effectively.

I commit myself to show that the best way to parent, is to take force and emotional manipulation off the table as an option, and rather 'force' myself to develop effective communication, clear, direct, and explain as much as possible, and that through this, my child will develop a keen ability to understand and communicate and reason.

Leading Edge Parenting

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that my children are beings just like me and that they are not less than me just because they are younger and in my care.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to get frustrated in a moment when my child says or does something that I don't know how to respond to.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to see my child as a burden on my time and focus.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that no one knows how to properly raise a child and thus I must figure it out, but within that the guiding point will be self honesty and even though I may not figure it all out, and I may end up transferring ineffective points to my child, I will still do my best to support them even after the fact to be able to direct the points that were not effective within themselves.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that I must prepare my children to survive, instead of focusing on creating a financial situation where they will never have to be concerned about survival.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that I must focus on my own survival instead of what is best, when surviving is included in what is best, but there is more to life than just survival.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that there are many people in this world who are completely lost and they require my support, even though they are not my children, but these people and their children will affect my child's life as well as my own, and thus I have a responsibility to all to support in every way possible to create a world that is best for all.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that I am too small to make a difference, and yet I play super hero fantasies in my mind, and I only care about my own self-interest which shows that the belief that I am too small is just a lie, it covers up the desire to focus only on my self and 'my life'.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that I must raise my child to compete with others, when if I stand up and create a system that is best for all, why would my child need to compete?

Preventing Dysfunction in Children through Effective Parenting part 4

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that it is hard to educate a child.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that only 'experts' certified by the system are qualified to educate a child, when the evidence that the experts are unqualified is clear because most if not all children end up with some form of dysfunction even after years and years of education within a system designed by the so-called experts.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that a child is really just a copy of the parents and the environment in the first 3-7 years of their life.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that a child should have at least one parent with them at all times until their vocabulary is developed to a point where the child can reason effectively and is no longer simply accepting what adults say in their environment by default.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not question the influences on children that our system and society accepts as normal.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that a parent who is stressed around their child will create a dysfunctional child.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that a parent who is frustrated and angry around their child will create a dysfunctional child.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that a parent who is impatient with their child will create a dysfunctional child.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that a child creates themselves or that God creates a child, when the evidence is clear that the child is formed from DNA - which is accumulated memories of those that have gone before the child - the parents vocabularies/education levels, and the environment that the child is conceived in, that the pregnant mother is in, and that the child is in from birth, as well as the nutrition that is given or not given to the child in the formative years (the first 7 years).

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that very little education takes place in school or after the first 7 years of a child's life.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that a child must be special in order to learn everything they need to learn.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not really investigate what a child really is and what they are really capable of.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to project onto the child that they cannot understand what an adult understands, because they are inferior, when it is simply a matter of not yet having the vocabulary and context to understand, but this can be developed with patience and care by the parent or parents and can be developed much rapidly than most people think is possible, but most people do not take full responsibility for their child's education, leaving the vast majority to the 'expert's - even those who homeschool still use the curriculum created by 'experts' who do not have the evidence that it produces a child with 'superior' ability.

I commit myself to show parents that they can support their child to be orders of magnitude more effective than the parent realizes.

I commit myself to support my children to develop effective communication abilities, reasoning abilities, and an honor and respect of the equality of life in all and to document as much of it as practically possible so that others can see that it is possible and will have no excuse to not do the same.

I commit myself to prove, through myself, my children, and any and all who have the willingness to walk with me, that a child can be much more than what most realize, believe, or accept, and that a child can in fact become a human being who cares about others for real and has the skills and abilities to stand effectively in this world and contribute in a way that is best for all.

The I of the Storm

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to blame another when I feel angry or frustrated.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that the anger and frustration that I feel is never coming from another person, it is always and only ever due to the way in which I have accepted and allowed myself to program my body to respond to certain types of stimuli with the feeling of anger and/or frustration.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to, in moments of feeling angry and frustrated, to argue with another from that starting point, when in fact arguing from that starting point is only an attempt to justify the anger and frustration and to find a point of blame in order to convert the negative feeling of anger/frustration into a positive feeling as winning or righteousness.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that being angry or frustrated within myself is the same as directly emotionally abusing myself.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that the emotional storm that comes up in a moment is real and has actual control over me, when in fact, the only reason it has control is due to my giving it authority over me, through time, through decisions, through acting within the starting point of the feelings, and that even though I am able to stop participation in a moment through breath, and release myself through self-forgiveness, this does not mean the emotional storm will not come back, because I must also investigate the relationships that I have created and formed which are designed to create the storm automatically.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize the missing key of self corrective action/application that is required in order to truly change myself.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that self-forgiveness alone will not change me, as the CHANGE occurs within and as ME changing the way in which I interact in the world and within my relationships to myself and others, and thus Self-Forgiveness is a KEY however not the only key, as it is only an initial point for me to be able to face the point of then actually changing how I interact, how I behave, how I see things and respond to things within me and the world.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to blame the world and other people for how I feel.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that I have 'dealt' with something because I have done self-forgiveness, but I have not done the self-honest point of checking the physical relationship and seeing whether in self-honesty I have in fact changed and am no longer controlling another or being controlled through the relationship in order to continue creating conflict/friction/energy in order to fuel my mind and self-interest and thus not truly be HERE and doing what is best.

I commit myself to walk this process effectively, to investigate my reactions to myself and my world and to apply self-forgiveness to give myself the opportunity of release from the pattern and to uncover and explain to myself within that what exactly needs to be changed that is not designed in a way that is best for all and to then apply myself within the physical corrective action required to change that relationship through time in order to adjust it to be best for all.

I commit myself to show that the process described above is the key to changing oneself as the inner process as well as changing oneself as the outer process in terms of taking responsibility for what has been accepted and allowed to function as systems in this world in the name of humanity, and to thus adjust those systems so that they function in a way that is best for all.

Survival Parenting

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that, as a parent, I must rush from one activity to the next.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to use the excuse to rush my child into doing something that I am doing it for their benefit.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that, as a parent, the extent to which I have/am attempted/attempting to create memories for my child that are positive and avoid creating memories that are negative.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize the extent to which I as a parent fear for my child's survival in this world.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize the extent to which I train my child to compete in a competitive world, believing that I am doing what is best.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to judge myself and others for training our children to compete in a competitive world.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to judge the world as competitive, when in fact it is the reflection of what I am accepting and allowing to exist within myself and thus in the world.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that my primary responsibility now, because I am a parent, is to train my child to be the best competitor to survive in a competitive world.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that competing for survival can ever have a winner, when in fact it requires the competitor to harm, abuse, and dumb down the competition, which means that the competitor would have no equals and thus constantly be a slave to controlling others.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that just because I see something reflected in the world or existing as a manifestation that it is not possible to change it.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that change first begins within by deconstructing the pattern existent in me that would allow for the existence/creation/continuance of a pattern without that is not best for all, and then moving from a new starting point to adjust the without so that it is reflective of the corrected pattern within.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that as a parent it is my primary responsibility to change myself within and to thus support my child as one and equal to myself to stand within the world only accepting within what is best and thus only accepting without what is best and to thus support both myself and my child to stand in the world to correct what is not best as this is what is best for myself, my child, and all.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself, as a parent, to take my role as a parent for granted, to take the gift and opportunity of having and supporting the development of a child for granted and not realize the amazing gift and opportunity that exists within being a part of the creation process of a child in this world.

I commit myself to take my role as a parent seriously, and to always do what is best for my child within the context of supporting them to develop inner awareness of what is best for all and to only accept within what is best for all and to thus be able to develop outer awareness of this world to stand within it and be a part of the external change in this world to align the systems to be best for all and to be able to stand and live within a world that is best for all as a natural expression of who one is.

I commit myself to investigate all the ways in which I still allow compromise of my child's development within what is best in the name of survival, convenience, and expediency.

I commit myself to support other parents to question the ways in which we are supporting/raising/training/disciplining our children to produce a child that is less than best.

I commit myself to find and support those who are willing to hear and to apply themselves within this process to remove all the limiting beliefs, change within and be a parent who is able to support a child to develop themselves to be best for all in a world that is still not yet best for all, as this would be the foundation of changing the world to eventually BE best for all.

Am I Just a Copy of a Copy?

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that every word I ever learned was copied by my physical body as a copy of how it exists in the person that was in my presence when I learned the word, in other words, I am just a copy of those who were here already when I was born.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that I am just a copy of all the previous generations that have gone before me, which includes me as well, and thus I am Here to either continue living out the past as a copy or direct myself within rewriting who I am and how I live and express myself in the world.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that I have free choice to be who I want to be when I had never in fact questioned the starting point of my choices which have been to always choose that which continues the focus of myself within as generated friction and conflict to generate energy within myself and thus that which I participate in as external events and situations are all within the context of that which supports this point within me and thus as a reflection of what I am accepting and allowing within me, manifests a world where the external system is using up the physical world and human beings just to generate more energy for itself as a point of survival as money.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to judge myself, my parents, and other parents that we have not given the best to our children and that I was not given the best as a child due to us having accepted and allowed the consequence/manifestation of a system that requires us to work for money for survival even in sacrifice of the most important thing in this world which is the education and support of the new generation of children in this world, which ends up only preparing the children to do the exact same thing as the parent which is to exist only to fit into the system of working for survival - and yet no one really fundamentally questions the point of all of this and we have accepted and allowed the creation of clever stories like religion and spirituality that there is apPARENTly something better after this life, which no common sense applied to see that the fact that one accepts and allows reality to be fucked up here on earth shows that one will simply accept and allow whatever happens after and that if this place is fucked up (and its not our fault, apparently) then whoever supposedly created this place is obviously quite fucked up and shouldn't be trusted to create something better beyond this world, and yet the reason people can't see this obvious problem is due to their parents not educating them effectively with common sense and instead instilling them with fear of survival.

I commit myself to stop the fear of survival within myself - point by point - no matter what it takes or how long it takes - to support my children to stop the fear of survival - to educate them for real - to support them to develop an effective vocabulary so that they can LIVE words and not just be a programmed response/reaction to words as automated consciousness, but to be able to stand in this system in support of what is best for all, and to do this for myself and to support other parents to do this to support their children to become REAL HUMAN BEINGS who care about life and the planet and each other and are able to express that with no FEAR.

I commit myself to show that all parents are not in fact parenting their children effectively but are in fact neglecting their child in many ways in the interest of survival and yet this is considered as completely normal by society because it serves the interests of corporate profit where both parents work and thus there is twice the disposable income to be fed back into the money system.

Thinking as a Cycle of Abuse

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to judge/think about another's failure and to within that create an image within myself as superior and successful and to thus utilize thinking about another's failure as a way to generate positive energy within myself.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to desire for another to fail in order that I may judge them and in so doing create a positive experience within myself.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to place myself in a superior position within my mind and to thus look for negative events and experiences in my world in order to feed my superior position in my mind with energy.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to place value within having positive energy experience within myself.

I forgive myself that I haven't accepted and allowed myself to realize that there is no real value in experiencing positive energy at the cost of another or myself or physical reality and that the only valid 'positive' experience is that in which all of reality is in the winning position and no one/nothing lose in any way whatsoever.

I forgive myself that I haven't allowed myself to realize that no one has ever won in a way that is valid and that all forms of winning that are held up both within myself and within this world are always at the expense of a loser and thus within that a consequence is created that ripples out through existence that cause the winner to in some way eventually lose, and that even though it may seem that some never lose, this is not possible to maintain forever, because we are all connected in physical reality and we will eventually become in some way what we have accepted and allowed in every part of existence.

I forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to be someone who wants everyone to win at all times and that is dedicated to creating a world where such a reality is possible.

I forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to realize that thinking within my mind is always playing the game of participating within some form of negativity as judgment either towards myself, others, or something in my perceptual or imaginative field in order to create the opposite polarity of positive energy experience within my mind and that this game is actually abusing me physically and all of physical reality and that there is a consequence for this in reality, it is not something that just stays in my mind.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to participate in the fear of giving up thinking as this is simply another way to keep playing the game of negativity, where the mind, does not want to give up the game, and uses fear to create the negative experience so that I will not stop, and within that I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to participate in the thought that something bad will happen if I give up thinking, when in fact the body is far superior to any thought that the mind can have as is demonstrated in the daily moment to moment functioning of my body that I am not thinking about.

I forgive myself that I have placed value in thinking as a way to not be honest with myself about my real starting point within thinking.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that giving up thinking is impossible, when in fact this is just a continuation of the game of thinking.

I commit myself to stopping thinking - to breathe - to catch my thoughts, to observe them, to direct them, to stop participation, to be aware of the real nature of my thoughts, to no longer participate - and within this I realize that the mind is not going to stop willingly and will likely fight and give all kinds of reasons to not stop, but within this I see clearly the consequence of what thinking produce for myself and this world, and I commit myself to walking the process of stopping,  no matter how hard or scary it may seem, and I know that as I apply myself within diligence, eventually it will stop, because the only reason the mind continues is because I continue to feed it with energy through participation.

I commit myself to utilize writing, self-forgiveness, and self corrective application to support myself to identify the points where I still participate in and justify thinking and thus to support myself to walk through every fear, justification, and excuse and thus be a support point for MYSELF to stop and thus to also be an example to others to stop as well and thus to support the creation of a world where we are here as individuals able to really be with each other and consider what is best and no longer create individual worlds in our mind that end up only ever creating chaos in the physical world of which we are all a part.

Parenting Possibilities

Do parents realize the fundamental responsibility they have in this world? We often give lip-service to the role of parenting, recognizing that the parent is creating a new life, shaping a child, etc, but I don't see any parents really looking at what they are fundamentally here to do as a parent.

As a parent, you are not just responsible for your child, you are responsible for the creation of this world. Obviously as an individual, what we accept and allowed and directly and indirectly participate in creates this world, but as a parent with a child you are now shaping the character of a new being emerging into this world, you are in fact cloning yourself, adding another you into this world, 1+1=2.

As a parent, do you see it as your role to simply ensure that your child survives?

As a parent, do you see it as your role to make sure your child is a 'good person'?

Or do you realize that you have the opportunity, if you take full, 100% responsibility, to support the creation and expression of a new form of life that is able to live and function and thus create a world that is best for all?

Do you see that you can fundamentally alter the course of history, which up to this point has just been mankind repeating the same mistakes over and over again, but only if you radically alter the relationship that you create with and towards your child.

Imagine, as a child, growing up in an environment where you are shown, by example, how to give as you want to receive. Imagine being taught, from as early as possible, the keys with which to understand your reality. Imagine never being lied to, never being tricked, never being abused, never being punished, and yet shown what is best and what is not best to do.

Often I see that parents think that if you do not punish a child, then they will become unruly, but that is only because the parent is not taking the time, effort, and disciplined approach to really explain how things work to their child, to make every effort possible to demonstrate, explain why, repeat, ask if the child understands, and be patient while the child makes a mistake and to be there to show the correct way - the best way.

Imagine not being haphazard with what you expose your child to. Imagine questioning every influence on your child to determine what the long term outcome will be on the child's character, imagination, and reasoning ability.

Imagine REASONING with your child, and through that teaching them HOW TO REASON for themselves, and thus supporting them to BECOME REASONABLE.

What if that were possible?

What if it were possible to remove every excuse and fear that you just have to do some things, even though you know they aren't best, because you don't have the time or the energy or your child just has to survive, so you have to use some fear and punishment otherwise they won't survive?

What if by removing all fear, all control, and instead directing the point within common sense, without energy, with clear communication, you could support a child to become, what by comparison one might consider a superior human being - not really superior, just not dumbed down and stunted emotionally - one that can stand in reality and direct themselves and others in the best way, without any fear, without any desire to control others, but with clear understanding of what is acceptable and what is not, free to stand up for what is best and to say NO to what is not?

I'm here to tell you that this is possible.

We are here to show you that this is reality, if you would but learn to remove the fear and the excuses within yourself as a parent.

We now have a child, 2 years and 3 months, at the time of writing this post, that cooperates, listens, learns, communicates, and is reasonable beyond what perhaps anyone would consider possible.

I highly suggest to check out our Facebook page Education is Evolution to see a few examples that demonstrate what is possible when, as a parent, you walk a process of correcting yourself from fear to common sense living. Here are a few examples from the page linked above:

2 year old brushes and flosses his teeth with no struggle

2 year and 3 months old child already learning to read with no force necessary

The 'secret' to Feeling Good

When you're unconsciously competent at doing what is best for you and for everyone else in the context of what you're capable of, you will automatically feel good as a result without even thinking about it.

Education secrets THEY don't want YOU to know about

Let me ask you a question. Do you think our education systems in this world support most people to fulfill their true potential?

If you answered yes, then you might be an elitist. If you answered no, then you might actually have some common sense left.

Why do we say that?

In a certain sense, philosophy runs the world. You might be thinking, "but most people don't study philosophy so how could that be true?" Because it is not people's knowledge of the history or various subjects of philosophy that runs the world, it is the beliefs, ideas, and relationships between yourself and others that determine how our world functions at a physical level. Of course there are physical relationships that exist in this world, but those are by and large determined through agreement. Look at the economy for example. Most people in this world don't make enough to survive while a few have more wealth than is necessary to live even the most luxurious life possible. And yet our economic system is not 'natural.' It is a function of the relationships between money and business and law that we have agreed to, or at least acceded to, at some level. And yet most of us have no real idea of how the economy actually functions, how business functions, how law functions, how government functions, etc. Still, we go along with these things due to basic assumptions that generally things cannot be different. This is due to the way knowledge and information is structured within us. Most of us are not even aware of most of the information within us and the relationships formed between the various points of information (which are really just words). "You don't know what you don't know," as the saying goes. 

So in this way, our behaviors and the systems which to a large degree determine the range of choices of behaviors that are possible for us, depending mostly on one's access to financial resources, are determined by the relationships between words within us. These relationships of words within us form a structure of knowledge which we can call, for lack of a better word, one's philosophy of life.

If you are not sure what your own personal philosophy is you can at least see the effects of it by asking yourself questions like: should everyone have their basic survival needs taken care of from birth or should everyone have to compete with each other to survive?

or: do you believe everyone has the capacity to be successful, happy, and effective in their life?

If you study the elitist philosophers (a philosopher is essentially someone who writes down their thought processes) and scientists (some who writes down their observations) they believe that people are born knowing what they know and their abilities and cognitive capacities are set in stone from birth. They believe that learning is not real, that education has no purpose, and that the masses must be conditioned and controlled to behave in a way that does not cause conflict within society. Don't believe me? Read Plato's "The Republic". Or read Descartes' writings. Or read John Dewey's "Democracy and Education". Hobbes' "Leviathan" is essentially an instruction manual for the king to run a deep state operation where the ire of the people never turns back on the real seat of power. Perhaps you see that playing out in US politics at the moment. Perhaps not. That depends a lot on your own personal philosophy (which you don't choose, by the way, because it is a result of your education, unless of course you have taken complete personal responsibility for your own education which is highly doubtful.)

To be clear, there are really two types of elite in this world. There are the value creators and the value destroyers. The value destroyers are also called the "parasitical elite". They are parasites living off of the value production of others and have no interest in raising others up, because they want complete and total control. They don't care about anything except for protecting their own position and status in life. They will work with others only to the degree that they believe or perceive that it will protect their status. This is why you see the creation of secret societies. They are "safe spaces" for the elite.

The beneficial elite are usually those who are effective in the system and thus generally make a lot of money or have a lot of influence but are interested in what is best for everyone. And you see varying degrees of this depending on the person, because the limits of their personal philosophy will determine the limit of what they see and understand as "best for everyone" but generally they recognize that the more they uplift others they more they uplift themselves. Jesus was one of these types and this is what he was trying to tell the world. Not that stuff about accepting you needing a savior (i.e. the elite.) That is the drivel that is promoted by the parasitical elite who just want to control you. Jesus was trying to tell everyone, at a point where people were starting to awaken to the fact that the voices in their head were not gods and demons but actually coming from themselves. Jesus was trying to say, "Hi, fellow sentient beings. If you want to have a better world then you have to use your sentience in a benevolent manner." You know, the whole "treat your neighbor as yourself" thing. But the church after a while, thanks to probably "Saint" Augustine, set the stage for sentient beings to be controlled even more by a little thing called "guilt" which is basically using one's own thoughts as a weapon against oneself and creating a little "policeman in the head".

So around the turn of the 19th century into the beginning of the 20th century with the accumulating body of knowledge (remember: observations), the elite began to understand how the human works at a physiological level. By the 1970's they knew the secrets to success (see: Napoleon Hill and Johnson O'Connor) they knew what people needed to be happy (see: Abraham Maslow), the knew how to condition people to respond predictably to stimuli (see: BF Skinner) and they knew how learning actually takes place in the brain (see: the work of Terje Lomo in the 1960's  in the field of neuroscience). They realized that actually anyone could change given the right conditions and that this could be used to a person's benefit or to their detriment. It is not nature VERSUS nurture. It's the balance between the two and your starting point that matters. A world that is best could be achieved by creating a supportive environment conducive to each person engaging and developing their inherent potential to its fullest expression. Or this process could be deliberately subverted and one's basic needs could be used as weapons against them to force them into submission.

So the elite now had a choice: they could share the secrets of what they had actually always benefited from without fully understanding it with the rest of the world or they could keep the secrets to themselves. But they also faced a dilemma. They could share these secrets and potentially face the wrath of all those who have been kept down or they could try and continue to dumb everyone down and hope the savages don't revolt.

The problem with this dichotomy is actually a fundamental problem of the parasitical elitist philosophy. See, what drives the negative elitist mindset is FEAR, which is the other side of DESIRE. The elite DESIRE control because they FEAR for their own survival. And yet by focusing on that, they create the conditions that threaten EVERYONE'S survival. We have created a competition-based system where we must all fight for survival. And before you give me that BS argument from primitivism that "well animals fight for survival so its just natural" you can just stop reading right now because there is probably no hope for you. YOU ARE NOT JUST AN ANIMAL. Yes you have an "animal body" but you also have a MIND capable of REASONING. You can change your own nature if you just know how it operates and what the physical mechanisms are. 

Buckminster Fuller talked about the "trim tabs" which are the little tiny rudder attached the much larger main rudder on a ship. Turning the main rudder is hard, but turning the trim tab is easy. And by turning the trim tab, it makes it easier to turn the main rudder. The "main rudder" in terms of changing your human nature is will power and the intellect. The trim tab, though, is that which is so simple that by changing that, your will power and intellect take on dimensions of effectiveness that you would never imagine possible in your current state of deliberately dumbed down reasoning ability. And this is what is being kept hidden from you and actually being used without your awareness to keep it hidden. Hidden in plain sight, so to speak.

Ok, back to the point. The elite have a problem because they don't want to give everyone access to the secrets they know because they are afraid their position and status will be threatened. But the problem is that when you keep someone dumb and at a low vocabulary then they have a reduced capacity to express themselves and thus are more likely to turn to violence to get what they need (in order to move up the ladder of Maslow's hierarchy of needs.) 

So by dumbing people down in order to control them, you create a monster that will most likely turn on you. Read Hegel and Marx. Every revolution will always lead to another one and it will usually be violent. Currently the parasitical elite are planning the revolution to end all revolutions which, trust me, will not be good for any of us. Look up "Year Zero". 

But what if we could, instead have a peaceful revolution to end all revolutions? One that created the conditions to support each person to be their very best! Here is what the elite miss: that if everyone had a truly effective reasoning ability (which clearly the parasitical elite lack), then people would realize what Jesus was saying, that the best way to live is by giving your neighbor as you would give to yourself and loving them as you would like to be loved in return. That is the philosophy of a truly enlightened and rational being!

"Forgive them for they know not what they do." Fortunately there are those of us from many different walks of life and many different positions at elite levels of society that understand this and are working diligently to create the necessary conditions to support REAL LIFE on earth. But the more people who understand what we are doing, the faster and more peacefully we can do this. Understand, if you are reading this: YOU ARE ELITE. You have been brainwashed to believe that you are just average and middle of the road. But if you go visit so-called "third world" countries you will see REAL POVERTY. If you have electricity, running water, enough to eat and internet access, you are ELITE ENOUGH to make a real difference. 

Don't give in to the system and believe this is all there is. But don't fall into the elitist trap of thinking Utopia can be forced on to the world. No Utopia is possible where force exists. It must be NATURAL. And for a better world to come about, we must go to the root of that which creates the world which is HUMAN NATURE, which, I promise, CAN BE CHANGED. There are many of us currently busy proving it. If you want to be one of those, we can show you the way, but we cannot do the work for you. There are tools which will aid you in your process, but they will always point you back to yourself. No guru will be of help because they just want followers. You must seek out those who recognize their EQUALITY with YOU. 

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